A woman is not an island

‘My first trimester was almost over when I realized I was pregnant!’ Mumbi Keega tells BabyLove Network. 

My persistent doubts made me take the test home where I confirmed I was pregnant. That threw me into panic. It actually took a few weeks to come to terms with my new condition and tell those around me. But the news was well received putting the qualms behind me.

So far … Now eight months gone. the support I get from everyone around me makes me proud of my pregnancy. I have also become closer to my parents. They are always near to assist in any way they can. Initially,I was shy about my status for some unexplainable reason. In a bid to hide it, I would wear oversize clothes and stay away from people who knew me.

I am now a firm believer of the saying that forthcoming babies bring blessings. This is because two weeks after ascertaining I was pregnant, I got a better paying job and in a really good working environment. Were I still in my previous working place, the demands of duty would have taken a toll on me. I am more keen about my health. I eat well, have secured some insurance policies, gotten a more comfortable abode and I am expectant of more blessings.

My pregnancy is work-friendly as it has not seen take offs, though I am not fast as I was before-a shortcoming that I have replaced with a policy of giving my best and nursing the fatigue later. And the satisfaction for good performance keeps me going. The little weight I have put on is alright with me. I have not changed much so my wardrobe is basically the same.

The name
I would love to have a baby girl who I would have named Venus. But then I told my colleagues about it and so far they have overused it such that I feel the need for a different name, which will remain a mystery until baby comes.

For the lady …
After all the information given to you in pregnancy, it pays to have your own mind. Otherwise. you can be overwhelmed with all contradicting info. Every experience has its own unique qualities. Just remember that it is not a sickness, and that it will soon be over.

Support
A partner is paramount. As much as pregnancy is a period of joy, one needs emotional support. You need help in making decisions, someone to rub your back and sooth the leg cramps and also carry the heavy luggage. A woman is not an island.

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