Rekindling love
Every day should be Valentine’s day for you and your wife. February 14 is just a day to remind you of your dedication to love, hold and cherish your better half. It is a reminder that your wife is gorgeous and that she needs to feel loved and appreciated. This is the day that you rekindle the sparks, the fire that united the two of you in the first place. It is no wonder that most couples go on a date on this particular day. If you have ever wondered why dates are so important then the answer is because they help you fall in love all over again. Valentine day. the day of romance and love, is historically grounded on centuries of myth, mystery and martyrs. Though it originally emerged as a day honouring a pagan god, it has evolved to be the centre of focus for lovers. Chocolates, roses and cards are among the niceties that are exchanged on this day to symbolically express love, affection and endearment. It is also during this time that restaurants offer special dinners for two. The dining experience is usually carefully arranged to provide a beautiful ambience that provides the mood for intimacy. Candle lit dinners are quite popular then.
Other common indulges on this day include watching romantic movies, reading romantic novels and gifting your wife with sexy lingerie, perfumes and scented candles. For those who are colour blind, be reminded that anything red or pink rules. Planning is good when done before hand so that you are not caught unawares or get to feel the always present cash crunch. You can even place a reminder on your phone just to be sure you remember. Work and the daily routine of life can ensure that you forget this all too important day. Deliberately set out to spoil your wife and to woo her just as you did back in the day when you met. This is the opportunity to relive the ‘outrageous times’ by taking a stroll hand in hand with your dream wife. Reminisce over the olden days and giggle over them together. Let your souls go mellow and as you warm up to the fire of the gone days, reach out to one other in a warm embrace laced with a passionate kiss.
Romance can become boring and a drag with time. This year seek to brighten up your romantic life. Find unique ways to boost the quality of your love making. Inculcate a sense of surprise. If you have children, arrange for them to be away from home and get experimental. Think about the bathrooms, the kitchen, the living room and even your flower garden, especially if your home is safe from prying eyes. These options will at least be out of the ordinary and they should give you ideas on how to add a spark to your intimacy.
Your wife will undergo several stages in her life that are not only confusing but difficult to live with. She is constantly in search of womanhood, trying to cope with childbirth and of course menopause. Always express gratitude and appreciation for this angel in your life. Make her know how much you love her, especially by appreciating all the things she does like grooming you before you leave for work, her hand in bringing up the kids and other tasks around the house. Simply put, make her feel gorgeous.
Lastly, make love this Valentine. It is easy as long as there is honesty and sensitivity towards each other’s needs. Remember that your partner is not psychic and he or she needs understanding. Let them know what makes you tick and turns you on. This special day that everyone declares their love should culminate into a stage setting for a continuous enjoyable intimate life. It is a day you prepare delicacies, get dressed up and look beautiful: day for exchanging gifts. This need not be obligatory but done out of love. Whatever you do, take things easy: with easy and soft music. Look for ways to get both of you relaxed and in the mood for some explosive love.
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