Pamper her this Christmas

The emotional connection between you and your pregnant wife will ensure a lasting love and a smoother pregnancy.

A pregnancy experience during the Christmas holiday can be quite a gift for a family. Not only for couples that have been looking forward to conceiving, but also for those that already have children and need an extra subject of love during the festive season.
Christmas time is clearly one of the jolliest times of the year. Make your pregnancy during this season exciting and a blessing to your family.
There are a several ways in which a pregnant family can enjoy themselves over the Christmas holiday. The family can choose to relax and spend some time bonding.
As a father, take charge of this rare moment to provide your pregnant wife and family with a holiday, a gift to remember. This should be more so if in the course of the year there has not been enough quality time spent as a family. Planning for a holiday away from the humdrum of every day living is important.
There are many places that the family can go for spoils but it’s prudent to consider the costs also. Affordability should be one of the key guiding principles though it should not be an impediment to fun.
Another consideration to bear in mind is the extended family get together. You could plan to see them before going away or arrange to join them before the season is over. Also, involve every member of the family in the planning so that each person’s wish is given fair consideration. Your pregnant wife’s wishes are of course top on the list. Take into account the traveling condition and ensure she is fit to travel. Consult with her medicare giver if in doubt. Short distances are most advised. Other exciting things that a pregnant family can involve itself in include buying gifts for one another and for the less fortunate in the society. It would be fun to choose gifts for one another and even more entertaining to select items for the unborn baby. An expecting father would find the Christmas time less strenuous by focusing on the happiness of the wife and the family at large.
Being away from work can be a recipe for boredom but this need not be the case. It is a golden opportunity to take stock of your relationship and seek ways of strengthening it. In fact, Christmas is one of the best times to rework all aspects of your life.

Here are some suggestions that should help you relate with your pregnant partner without sweat this Christmas.

• Take time to listen to your spouse. Many times we forget simple acts of intimacy like lending an ear to one another.
•Recreate opportunities for being there for one another and increase sensory touch. Do not allow the festive mood to carry you away unless it’s in expressing affection for each other.
•During this Christmas, look for a way of reliving your best dating encounters with your spouse. Think about it and as you plan for it let your mind get imaginative. As a couple talk about your love life and discover how such a conversation in itself becomes a moment of intimacy.
•Prepare to make this Christmas unpredictable. Take mental note of lovely things that you have not said to your spouse in a long time. Consider how important she is and say magical words to her over and over again during this festive time.
•Schedule passion for this season and look forward to it. Plan to make it a special time and as you both lay your focus on being together excitement will grow and the two of you will be drawn closer than ever.
•Above all, this Christmas plan should be more affectionate, more romantic. Romance is an intimate connection to another human being and a simple way to express love and affection. It is a known fact that women treasure romance more than the men. It makes them feel valued, loved, attractive, and cared-for. It also improves their self esteem.
Romance as an element in a relationship is the barometer that women unconsciously use to determine how much they are respected, valued and loved. This Christmas, go on and be more affectionate to her. It will make her feel more alive, ensuring she connects to you better. The emotional connection between you and your pregnant wife will ensure a lasting love and a smoother pregnancy. This will be the best gift your wife can get from ‘Father Christmas’.

END: PG18/50