Enjoying every moment

Maureen Kabanya never imagined being pregnant could make her feel this special. She shares with Pregnant.

‘Same ol’ same ol’- I missed my menses. Visiting the obstetrician, I was informed I was seven weeks pregnant. It was a great feeling muddled with some anxiety. One thing was for sure though; I had stepped right into motherhood.

Towards the end of my first trimester the bizarre feelings checked in. I couldn’t do without githeri. At my fourth month, it was rice. Then came the mango season; I was downing three to four of them in a day.

Pregnancy as made me more mature, appreciate life more, choose friends wisely and-keep a small circle of true ones. I have had to make some major adjustments, like taking time off my work in the entertainment industry to give optimum attention to the little one growing inside me. If you know me, you will agree that.

I have gained weight. That doesn’t bother me as I know it’s only for a short while. Besides, some weight makes an expectant lady beautiful and in bloom.

So far, I have not suffered from any serious condition. I just have swollen legs, which is normal. I feel energetic and have been active throughout. I have learnt that every pregnancy is unique and one shouldn’t rely on other people’s experiences. Support from loved ones is very important. I miss travelling, my favourite pastime.

Now that I am expectant, long distances are forbidden. The other thing is that I can’t wait to fit into my normal clothes. I love it when my baby kicks or moves. It reminds me of how blessed I am to be carrying and nurturing a human being in my belly. l love being treated kindly and in a special way by my friends and those around me in matatus, the bank and so on, is one thing I have enjoyed. Shopping for the baby too has been fun and amazing.

I don’t have scares. Initially I feared labour pains but now I want the baby so badly that I’m ready like never before. I think I have had the best pregnancy ever.

My partner and I decided on a Hebrew name. We chose a name with a Godly meaning because we are planning to bring up the baby to be God fearing.

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