The Why Factor

How to answer his many many questions
What is it that makes a toddler keep asking, ‘Why?’ to almost every answer? Could there be an explanation to this age old habit? While the ‘Why?’ bit may be a daunting a task, it is inevitable as this is a right of passage. So don’t blame it on the nanny when, after you tell your little one something, she tilts her head, blinks and asks, ‘Why?’

A toddler relies on repetition and questioning to build their limited vocabulary. They use routine to foster balance and relieve themselves of chaos. At 2, they begin to acquire words fast, an occurrence called ‘naming explosion’. They can speak up to 100 words and by age 2 years, they know 300 words.

Well, it is refreshing to know that there are a few simple ways to handle the questions rocketing your way like a professional:

  • Pay attention because this is a good chance to have quality time with your baby. You are most likely your child’s first teacher. She is therefore looking out for every of your reactions.
  • Come down to her level by thinking like her It may surprise you how well you handle her  questions. Otherwise you may not be able to answer them.
  • Make a wild guess by attempting to answer the question briefly to the best of your ability. By all means, resist the urge to ignore your child or respond angrily. Children are very keen and will tell when you answer just for the sake.
  • Re-direct the same questions to them. This makes the children engage their mind into finding the answer. It builds their imagination allowing them to exercise it; thus becoming little problem solvers.
  • Avoid the need to be a hero. Acknowledge when you have no answer to their questions. To a child, honesty is the best policy. This would actually be a great time to go on a treasure hunt searching for the answers in a library or museum.
  • Whatever you do, always remember to tackle questions with age in mind. A question from a 1-year-old cannot be handled the same way as that of a 5-year-old. Try and use their surrounding or everyday items to describe your answer. This helps them understand your answer without having to tire their brains.

Spend time learning by getting material that may give you information on easier communication. Strive to be your child’s fan and help her indulge in the vast world of imagination and knowledge. Then you will be glad to see how far your little one has come as they become master communicators ‘And you will be asking them’ … WHY?’ because you just love their response.

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